Hi Peter,
Yes, I have it and I like it.
I am not aware of the VR "not working at 1:1", mine seems to, I just put the lens on and confirmed it
I wouldn't want to be without AF either (and AF-S is the only type that works on a D5000), I can confirm that works at 1:1 too.
Really poorly shot; minimal attempt to get parallel to the subject,
handheld (but with on camera flash), AF and VR on, uncropped, unsharpened ...
Well they prove it does 1:1 (sensor size is 23.6 x 15.8mm according to the book and these are mm we are looking at), but not much more.
I was surprised to see some CA on the right of the horizontal shot, but I had over-nuked the exposure and had to bring it down nearly a stop in PP and still there's a blown reflection on the bevel of the cheap plastic ruler I grabbed from the drawer
Dunno if that's useful,