Terri, have you bit the bullet on which macro to get? I was in my local store looking at the Canon 100mm L and the Tamron 90mm today. The initial question for me was whether to get the 100mm or 180mm but after reading the varied replies in this thread, I'll probably go for the 100.
As an aside, I have the 50mm compact macro and managed to use it with the 1.4 tele-extender by putting an extension tube between them.